Mr. Yeah

If you have never heard The Dream's "Mr. Yeah" then I'm sure your a bit confused about the title. Mr. Yeah is the guy you ALWAYS go back to when things aren't working out anywhere else. He could be a friend, a friend with benefits, or an ex. Some guy you had some sort of previous "relationship" with. You could not talk to this guy for months at a time, but some how he is conveniently right there right when you need him. Whether it be just to talk, to get away, or to get put down the right way, he is right on time. Why do guys like Mr. Yeah exists? Comfort and reliability. Getting to know new people is a pain. You have to put time and energy into getting to know someone new; but what if you don't have time or energy? Your Mr. Yeah knows you. He knows exactly what you like, and he knows exactly what you want to hear at any given moment in time. Who has time to play the games that dating brings. Should I call him? what should I text back? Whats does he think of me? How far should I let him go? blah blah blah blah. Mr. Yeah knows what it is and so do you. you would think, "Well if I'm already comfortable with him why can't we just be in a relationship." Mr. Yeah is NOT your boyfriend. I'm not saying he couldn't be your boyfriend one day but while he holds the Mr. Yeah title he's not. Mr. Yeah is that one ex that even though you guys didn't work out, you could still never leave him alone, you would go out and date other guys, but no one ever did it quiet like him. The problem with Mr. yeah is, he knows he's Mr. Yeah. He knows that your ass is gonna be back. You all could go without talking for months even years and one day you'll get that faithful facebook message, or phone call, or text from him and he knows damn well your gonna give him the time of day. Then your right back with this guy you swore up and down you would never talk to again at one point in time. Mr. Yeah is the lonely girls worst nightmare. He will slick talk those panties right off and you'll have no idea what hit you. How do you get rid of Mr. Yeah? I have no clue. If you find out please, let me know.... because mine just called, and he and I both know I'm about to call right back. smh.






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